Posted in Daily Post, Psychology, Tuesday

Opportunities of the Past

Tuesday Tunnel


“We all have history, although some ignore, while others adore” – Me?


Whenever there is a question of why, or the time to take action arises, and the reasoning has died. There is only one way to look, one direction to trust, and one path to uncover. This, is the question of our past, this question alone will provide the answer we need in order to move on.


The Future


I think of the future as one does with an ever-changing schedule, with an open mind. Coming to this realization is what unbinds us from the chains of repetitiveness, and lets us walk with newly found explorations and emotions we never thought we would let ourselves experience. Being in a state of happiness just means you don’t regret what occurred five minutes ago, and I am sure we all have been sad or let down by things that happened years or even millennia ago; but do we not try and hold back those monsters so angels can thrive in their stead. Challenge and misfortune come to every human begging for attention, but we fight and we hold the line between them and our love for the world around us.


Every time we gain ground on the forces of negativity, we learn and adapt to the nature which keeps us grounded. The very life we live is an interpretation of the future we will inevitably and fortunately experience. If we let ourselves fall for our own limitations, then freedom is forsaken and our own worst enemy is in the future, inside of us, nurturing on the safeties and fears we keep, only to limit our potential.


Freedom is discovering the past to change your future for the better 🙂


The Past


I would like to believe the past is something which is defined by the beholder. Not just a projection of what our feeble understanding of the mind conjures for us. Memory is taken for law in court, but not trusted when a loved one needs to trust it most. Hate, love, anger, and kindness are just some examples of emotions which almost everyone has had change their perception of the past. We love our hero, so in turn we remember the good times where we were most affected. The anger we feel for our worst enemy blocks out the times of understanding and corrupts us with inexplicable and unintelligent actions.


When we decide to feel emotion and stop caring what the world wants us to feel, freedom is there. Although letting your emotions guide your action without recourse is just another form of prison. Love is great, but do not mistaken what you love for what is right.


Please keep on loving and sharing the possibility of happiness, just be careful of why, the reasoning will decide the repercussions. 


Traditionally speaking of course.

Posted in Daily Post, Psychology, sunday, Writing Prompt Responses

Being Everyone Else

Smooth Sunday


If you have been reading my content then you realize I sometimes write these posts which take a familiar and accepted concept, then break it down and re-build it in a way which can be used by us in the most productive way.


Well, This is One of Those


Everyone wants to feel like they want to belong within their realm of reality. Part of what helps build a society is the collaborative wanting of a group of people to be the one who contributed what was needed. Belonging is meaning, and once we find meaning our search is over.


Lots of psychologists and therapists will understandably recommend getting comfortable around other people; while they say to feel positive and happy in your own skin as well. While this isn’t a paradox, it is still a challenging feat to achieve. Just think about this one line of thought, if one is comfortable with others, does this mean that peace is on the inside, or is the facade just that, a facade.

Come closer

Ignoring the Possibilities


What we are does not have to do with what we decide to be okay with, or what others decide is good for us to accept. What we are, is the manisfestation of all the possibilities and reality which occurs within our range of knowledge. That is what we can be and what we are, not what we are willing to accept. We live with ourselves everyday, and to say that we are what we vbelive is to ignore the rest which we do not have control of.


 That is not to say there isn’t hope for more to become, it just means the possibilities of success were just increased by 100%…



Via Daily Prompt: Harmonize

Posted in Daily Post, Psychology, sunday

Can You Accept Oppurtunities

Sunday Sunshine

 Beautiful and lovely, the sun rises in the distance outside my bedroom window. The world is still, with only rays of light, getting brighter and brighter. 

 This was my morning.

 With breakfast eaten and my morning routine complete I lay down in bed and contemplate. (Not sure what I was contemplating, something very important, of course 😂) I suddenly awoke and checked my phone; the time was 5:45 Pm. The feeling of defeat started creeping in, as I lay there regretting the decision to contemplate. 

 Although I had slept through most of the day, I still had a feeling of hope that I could make this day an extremely productive one. Usually, I let myself get torn down by missed opportunity, and will beat myself up about it for the rest of the day, which I’m sure a lot of us do at times of distress. 

 The unhealthy habit of kicking ourselves when we are down, must be remembered as a thing of the past if we are to become the best possible versions of ourselves.

Only follow your heart, if your heart has a pure love for oneself. 

 This might sound cheesy, but bringing love from inside yourself into the world, there will be a force of positivity around you at all times. This can help in challenging situations which, as we know, can lead to some less then loved moments. 

 Hope Sunday was incredible. 

 Just relax and enjoy yourself, no matter what will happen, you can only enjoy what is happening

Posted in Daily Post, Psychology, wednesday

Will Strives In the Face of Death

Wednesday Will

  Nothing can kill a will, or nullify it for that matter. The constant inspiration we try to achieve, comes from the endless pool of energy called will. There are two different kinds of wills, yet both have a similar conceptual meanings.
When there’s a will there’s a family:
 A will is a testimony for our post death wishes, in basic terms. People can see this as an opportunity to deliver feelings they couldn’t when they were with us, and others use it to make sure certain circumstances become reality.
 Whatever the case, we use this tool to deliver our ‘will’ onto the world around us. coincidentally, there are ways to banish this will into oblivion; the same way others can use our lack of confidence in ourselves to banish our internal will.

When there’s a will there’s a way:
 To push past the more difficult challenges in life we tap into our willpower to use as a force to drive us forward. The use of this power shows a strong connection with ones personal beliefs and goals. Because the inspiration you gain from your own willpower can be used to fortify your goals, there is a certain vulnerability when opening up to the fact that it is your own will.
 Once we accept that it is we who are the motivation to continue on, we start looking for that power again and again. This can sometimes lead to disappointment when the will isn’t strong enough to help us with the task at hand.

Why is this?
 When there is potential for success, there is a potential for failure, and with every growth the other side grows as well. This is why when we dont succeed at something that is ‘easy’ for us, the immediate response is usually to let ourselves get bombarded with negative thoughts of failure.
 Bringing out the goodness without the negativity is something which is learned over time. When challenged with something extreme your sub-conscious will push back with enormous amounts of will to counteract the impossibility of the situation. To be challenged is to be great, and to overcome challenge is to achieve greatness.
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I Will Love You From a Distant Place

There are times to be the one who helps personally and the one of has to keep their distance…

It starts with me

Being close to you hurts, so I will love you from a distant place.

You tell me you’ve given up drinking, I find alcohol hidden around the house. The lies hurt me and make me frustrated, so I decide I cannot visit your home any longer. I will love you from a distant place.

You tell me you only started drinking when I was a teenager. I tell you I have so many traumatic memories of your addiction when I was a child. You tell me I imagined it, I’m crazy, I need counseling. I decide I can no longer talk to you about the past or my childhood. I will love you from a distant place.

When I talk to you on the phone, you threaten suicide if I don’t do what you want. You have me in tears. I decide I can’t speak on the phone to you…

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Unplanned Days, Unplanned Successes 

Wild Wednesday 
 Today does not feel like a wednesday. From Rafting to hiking and even a little singing on the beach, there was nothing about this day that reminded me that it was a random day of the week. I was in this weekend mode during the whole day, I almost forgot to post today because of those mental auto-activities. 

 So, what happens when there is a gap in our schedule which could be beneficial for us to be doing, but all the same, makes it harder to accomplish what we do on a daily basis?

 To help understand this we must look upon Zig Ziglar and his array of motivational quotes, but this one I particular, 

 Isn’t it amazing how much stuff we get done the day before vacation? 

Zig Ziglar

 Looking for an excuse can be part of the challenge which hits us hardest on vacation days. To realize that vacation is used to recharge for more accomplishments, is the key to never letting a lazy day keep you down for more than a day, like it’s supposed to. 
 There are things we need rest from, and there are things we need more of, even if we feel like it was enough. Look deeper inside of you to really believe your contentment is just that, and not your unproductive self trying to break free…

Posted in Daily Post, Psychology

Being Worthy Shows What We Can Earn

Tuesday Trust

 Money has been around for a while, like a really long time. Even before the creation of any kind of currency, the human race was using substitutes for money such as animals or varying services. This habit has shaped the concept of ‘earning’ throughout our history.
 Brought out of context, the subject of this article can look like a way to earn money, but I am just going to focus on the concept of earning in a mental sense alone. (Maybe by using these tools we can earn more in our lifetime)
 Earning Our Lives 
 Every time we accomplish something no matter how big or small, there is always a thought of how much work we put into it, in the past. Because of this constant process to live up to our own work, and loving the rewards more for it, we always try to make things harder for ourselves to feel like we deserve everything that comes from the action. 
 This is evident in all things such as simple tasks which we think through a little too much sometimes, or the harder challenges in life in which adversity creates a particular pride in our work. These two ends of the same spectrum, let us go to each extreme and learn from the experience. We teach ourselves to either be haughty about our accomplishments or to not let the feeling that we deserve the rewards take hold. 

 Inner Balance 
 Keeping a level playing field within our minds can mean the difference between contentment and frustration. Just like all things, if done through moderation, emotions can be beneficial. Meaning that once we learn to tap into our opposing feelings, and we focus on our moods in different situations, there will be chances to feel the contentment of earning ones way into happiness.
 Being a successful person only feels good if you fought to get to where you are.

  Don’t lose the war thinking it was the battle.
 (Art by @princessshaynabelle on insta)

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Monsters are just Mirrors with the wrong reflections

Monday Malevolence 
 We react to words like demon, and monster like we would if they were right in front of us. In a conversation consisting of a subject described like this, there is a certain benevolent force which drives our words with a clarity of the endless battle of good and evil. It is like, in some ways we can somehow be the judgment of what is and what isn’t good.

 There are many different manifestations of what we call positive and negative. Once we use these concepts to describe something, there are certainties with which we now associate with those subjects. Because the belief in those words come with feelings of extremism, caution is a priority that must be used while using the power of these two concepts. 
 So now that we understand the commitment those words create; there can be a deeper understanding into how we can become more positive while using these concepts to bring out the certainty in which we live. 
 Words create feelings and there is a power in being able to change the feeling of a situation from boring to engaging or upset to thoughtful. Helping a social circle stay positive is a great way to improve the quality of your conversations. Just by using the word positive to describe the situation around us creates better vibes in general. 
 If we are feeling negative towards something we must look in ourselves for the problem before searching elsewhere. Be positive and enjoy life, life will enjoy you too.

(Art by @princessshaynabelle on insta)

Posted in Daily Post, Psychology

Sunday Spirit

Everyday experience has a purpose

 Everybody has their own definitions of what the word ‘spirit’ means. Some say it is a supernatural force, while others believe in more psychological manifestations. What we will be focusing on today is simply the way to use this concept as a positive force in your very own lives. 

 I have spoken about this in earlier posts, and I will again; we all wake up with different feelings and perspectives of the world on different days. I think it’s obvious what we feel like on Monday (unless you’ve read my previous posts) and the amount we accomplish on the days we feel positive is significantly more.
 When the sunlight pours into the room from the cracks in the shades each and every morning, our brains will receive alert type signals to get up to a bright new day. On the other side of the coin there are those times we oversleep or sleep-in. Personally when I wake up late I and have to start my schedule with the feeling of lost opportunity as the inspiration for the remaining few hours.

 That is the reason for so many of those depressing days and unproductive hours. If we wake up with a negative attitude or an expectancy of laziness then there will never be a way out of the loop of unproductivity. There are times when it is very hard to accomplish but with the spirit of every other productive, loving day, you can’t lose the fight.

 (Art by @princessshaynabelle on insta)

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Amazing Article on what its like to be studying Psychology

As I plan to make psychology my partner in life , there are a few things that as a student studying the subject want to share with the world . These instances are unique to people in the field and each one located in the spectrum can fairly resonate with the idea that I want […]

via 12 Things that a psychology student wants to share with the world . — Under The Candle Light Amazing Article on what its like to be studying Psychology.